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MEK and Helen Kemp

Amusing Workshop Experience

Amusing Workshop Experience That Created My Future

MEK with Helen Kemp
Michael and his mother, Helen Kemp

The morning after I graduated from Westminster Choir College in May 1968, without telling family or friends, I enlisted in the army. 1968 was an intense period of the Vietnam War, but I did not enlist because I believed in war. On the contrary, I felt it unworthy to accept the benefits of our country without stepping up and doing my part. I was the only one in my unit who had enlisted instead of being drafted. In order to prepare myself for what I knew would be physically intense basic training, I preceded my army entrance by working hard labor for three months in Oklahoma. Then, a week before my army time began, I went with my folks to a Choristers Guild church music workshop in Naramata, British Columbia.

Dad, as the Choristers Guild Executive Director, was both administrator and the adult choir clinician for that week, and Mom, of course, was the Children’s Choir clinician. I joined them as a guest to say goodbye. I had no responsibility and found myself just sitting around…but I quickly noticed that there were lots of idle youth sitting around too.  The workshop involved adult and children’s choirs, but there was no activity for youth in those days.

MEK and youth singing

A fun idea popped into my head. I surreptitiously began talking to these idle kids, passing the word that we might be able to come up with something that would blow the minds of the adults. The bored kids loved that idea. The youth and I agreed to meet in secret every evening that week. I taught them to sing, and we learned a rousing and spirited Jamaican anthem called Calypso Noel. Some of the youth played flutes, guitars, and percussion, so we added to the fun! None of the adults at the workshop had any idea that this was happening.

On Friday, at the end of the workshop week, Dad had just started his final adult rehearsal…when I walked in quietly and tapped him on the shoulder. I said that some youth had come to me and asked if they could sing a little something to the adults. I told Dad it would mean a lot to them, so would he allow that to happen? Being an efficient choir director, Dad was conflicted, but he finally allowed them to sing. With a smile, I then turned around and snapped my fingers…and in marched 70 youth, dressed to the hilt and bursting with spirit and enthusiasm. They sang the memorized music with phenomenal spirit and they knocked the adults crazy! Afterwards, the adults just kept on clapping, insisting that the youth sing it again, which they did!

That happening was just meant to be a smile enhancing surprise, but it ended up changing of the style of the Naramata Summer School. At every annual summer music school in Naramata since then, a youth choir has always been included!

In rehearsal

But this happening changed more than that. The morning after the closing concert of the workshop, as our family was getting ready to depart, the administrator of the summer school pulled me aside and asked how long I would be in the army. I told him probably two years. He then said, with determination, “On the summer after the army, would you be willing to come back to Naramata and be our official youth choir clinician?” Two years later, that actually happened, my first choral workshop at age 24, which opened the door to what would eventually grow to 526 workshops throughout the US, Canada, and other countries. Naramata bought me back as youth choir clinician 6 times and as adult choir clinician 5 more times. Here are reviews of my life of conducting and workshops, all of which happened because of that fun, pre-army experience in Naramata.

Post-Workshop Personal Letter

Dear Michael, well, you’ve done it again. You’ve moved me to tears. But before you think it’s all your fault, let me assure you that “MUSIC” always makes me cry (or laugh as the case may be); but not just cold clinical music. First it has to be taken in and cuddled a bit and warmed up in somebody’s soul; then it has to be shaped a bit, wrapped up in appropriate trappings and introduced in a sympathetic atmosphere by someone who really loves and understands it. Damn it all, that’s just what you do. You see, it is not you at all, it’s the music in your soul. And I swear if you hadn’t been blessed with the ability to get it out, you would explode or you’d blow yourself up (whichever was the first to occur).

But let’s go right on the next step…the one that lets you accept whatever we offer, as long as you consider it a sincere effort. Then you inspire us to do better, and we do! BUT!!! If we don’t, that great safety valve, your sense of humor, opens up to let the pressure off, and we go back for a second try. Watching you direct our little band of crows trying to sing like meadowlarks and sounding like cuckoos, really made me swell with pride to think that I was lucky enough to know you as a friend, not just a conductor. Sincerely, Bud Buchan (a Canadian church choir member)

Further Reviews

“It is difficult to express how excited everyone was with your conference here at Furman University as this year’s guest scholar. I heard nothing but glowing remarks about your lectures, your attitude, your enthusiasm, and the vigor and understanding with which you worked. Thank you for presenting one of the finest choral conferences here ever. Congratulations!” Dr. Bingham Vick, Jr., Furman University, Greenville, South Carolina

MEK and Weston Noble
Michael and Dr Weston Noble

“It has been a special pleasure to teach alongside you, Michael. You have such joy, such verve, such humor in your presentations. No wonder everyone loves you, as we do, and enjoys being with you. You have a special gift, to be certain. It was a privilege being with you.” Dr. Weston Noble, Luther College, internationally famous conductor

“Fantastic…two thumbs up…outstanding director…meticulous rehearsals…the quality of instruction was wonderful…the energy of the conductor was infectious!  The youth were inspired and enriched by working under your direction, and came away with a feeling of a job well done. Thank you for all your energy and enthusiasm, for imparting your knowledge and obvious love of what you are doing to them, for challenging them to reach high.” Agnus French, Lancaster, PA, American Guild of Organists

Reviews From Germantown Academy

MEK conducting
At Germantown Academy

“Michael Kemp is remarkable in every way. Arriving at the school when our choral program was dwindling due to lack of leadership, Michael turned the situation around in one year, taking a choir of twelve lackluster singers to a choir of 75 enthusiastic singers, who grew exponentially in their skills as musicians and singers in the course of that year. Simultaneously, Michael started an adult choir, the Academy Chorale, growing in one year to over 80 singers. He also founded the Academy Chamber Society, an orchestra which grew in that same year to 45 semi-professional musicians from all over Philadelphia. I have sung in the Academy Chorale and watched rehearsals with students, knowing first hand that his rehearsals and subsequent performances are both masterpieces of serious purpose, affirmation, and humor. Each rehearsal is a voice lesson, a music theory lesson, and another step in one’s own and the group’s growth. Michael seems to know just the right way to motivate, to demonstrate, to instruct, to get the best musicianship everyone can give.” Suzanne Perot, Assistant Head of School

“Michael, the combination of energy and expertise you have brought to the school has been breathtakingly positive for Germantown Academy in terms of singing, spirit, community building, and outreach. The stereotype of a person as charismatic as you includes a healthy disdain for “sweating the small stuff”, so we find your painstaking attention to details, whether they be related to a performance, a gala Caribbean choir tour, or an advisee in need, very heartening.” Anthony Garvan, Head of Upper School

“Sunday’s performance was spectacular, but that is the standard the GA community has come to expect from the adult community ensembles, Academy Chorale and Orchestra, which you created. Witnessing the joyful expressions on the faces of those who practice such sophisticated musical arts lifts the spirits of all who attend. My thanks, Michael, for the many gifts embedded in each performance: the gift of great music, the gift of transferred joy, the gift of community within community, a circle within a circle.” Jim Connor, Head of School

Comments From Academy Chorale & Orchestra Members

MEK Conducting
Conducting the Academy Chorale & Orchestra

“I was excited to find in you a leader with proven knowledge and experience, and inexhaustible energy and enthusiasm, but also a unique ability to convey to singers what the music really meant, as well as a vision of what the performance was designed to convey to the audience. While leading every rehearsal, you consistently displayed gentle good humor, unfailing patience, and a clear understanding that the performers were there to have fun too! In a society so divided, you have convinced us that music unites us, sharing the beauty and joy of music. Michael Kemp…YOU have truly inspired us!”

“Your passion for the music is contagious and, no doubt, is the reason why we are all inspired to perform to our personal best. Thank you for never tiring of trying to take every piece of music beyond correct notes and rhythms as you attempt to stay true to the composer’s vision, ultimately creating an experience that is meaningful to the musicians as well as the audience.”

“There were numerous concerts which we sang with you with emotionally tear-filled eyes. How can there be so much unheard beauty lying dormant on a piece of paper? Michael, we are forever thankful for your talent of changing this piece of paper to a beautiful, heart-wrenching movement of true music.”

News of 6-14-2019

Dear family and friends, I know that you are concerned about my physical and mental health and would appreciate occasional updates. You may not know of my ALS diagnosis that was just made in March, which was unsettling. I then considered pulling out of the ACCA May “Farewell” concert because I was afraid that I might not make it through. However, I am now pleased that I stayed in there with my chorale and orchestra, and completed that concert. If you would like a recording of that spectacular concert, let me know.

Now to specifics about my health:

I am now on medication that will help slow down physical deterioration. What a relief. I have serious mobility issues mostly about climbing stairs, but my physical health seems a little steadier. My legs, especially my left leg, are weak, and climbing too many stairs wears me down. But rather than quitting exercising, I exercise most mornings of the week, being careful to not to be over aggressive, which had always been my norm.

Now that ACCA responsibilities are over, I am concentrating on my “old” life as a church choir director where I am now at Trinity Presbyterian in Berwyn, PA. The congregation is becoming energized and enthusiastic. Janet and I are working on ways to enhance the church’s style to draw in younger adults and families. I am working with our music staff on ideas to rebuild our children’s choir program. Bottom line…I am feeling positive about being a part of that church. I wake up positive and creative.

When working on positive matters during the day, such as studying music, singing, playing violin, viola, and piano, composing, writing my life stories, and beginning more training books for choir directors, I rarely ever slip into worrying about my life. Almost every day is filled with joy. Please know that I have no pain with this ALS. Probably many victims have little to motivate them, but I have so much that I can’t possibly do it all.

Because of ALS-related speaking and singing issues, vocal issues that used to be natural now need careful concentration and attention. I therefore vocalize, both singing and speaking, every morning, checking posture, breath support, and tone placement.

I am staying in daily contact with VA doctors and ALS support professionals in Ambler, PA, one of whom has often sung under my baton. He is opening up many helpful doors.

Thoughts about my future? Rather than being obsessed with a potential shortness of life, I realize that I have so many positive activities and goals that I live day to day, concentrating on today and tomorrow rather than the unknown future. As long as I am doing good things for people, being creative, and using my gifts in a positive way, each day is a gift.

This brings you up to date with my health and mental attitude. Please know that I am aware of and appreciate your thoughts and prayers. Live one day at a time in a positive way.

Thoreau Paraphrase:

“Take time by the forelock. Launch yourself on every wave and make special things happen!”

Lessons Learned Behind the Hedge

It was a moment where the boundaries between my real world and imagination faded. The waist-high grass along the creek bank combined with the eerie sounds of birds, insects, and wind in the trees to stir my imagination, transporting me suddenly into the world of my current television hero, Jungle Jim. From that point on, every step I took was alive in my mind with danger and intrigue.

Although the real world had temporarily faded from my awareness, I was in fact a twelve year old with the best Saturday job in the world, a kid helper at Garlands’ Landscaping Nursery in Oklahoma City. On that day I was the spray foreman’s assistant, unwinding up to 200 yards of high pressure hose from the truck and pulling it to where the foreman was spraying DDT to quell a mosquito outbreak.

You could only drag a hose around for so long before a job like that got tedious, and it was then that I let my imagination out to play. I became Jungle Jim leading a safari into the dense undergrowth of deepest, darkest Africa, where danger lurked behind every tree and shrub. I found a machete we used for cutting grass sod in the truck, which I stuck in my belt, just the way Jungle Jim did each Saturday morning. Not only did I look good, but now Jungle Jim was armed! With the hose over my shoulder and hat pulled low, I started using the machete to chop a path through the tall grass, thrown deeper and deeper into my imaginary safari by the burning Oklahoma sun and the primitive sounds of nature all around me.

I was at the top of my game, larger than life, clearly indestructible, when it happened. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw something jump, long and black and slimy. It was just a glimpse, so I wasn’t sure I had really seen it. Perhaps it was a figment of the heightened intensity of my imagination. I whispered to myself, “Get hold of yourself, boy…but be ready for anything.” The sounds of the insects seemed to swell, and sweat stung my eyes. I started forward again, hardly daring to breathe, muscles tensed and senses alert for trouble. Three more cautious steps, and suddenly the thing jumped again, this time dangerously close! There was no time to think. I was, after all, Jungle Jim, and I knew what had to be done. Down the machete came, once, twice, three times! In vain the beast jumped again, hissing horribly and spewing forth its deadly venom. But it lost its final battle, and its death throes began to diminish. The once frightening creature finally lay still, fallen in the heat of battle, vanquished by the courage and quick thinking of…Jungle Jim.

Still struck with the shock of such super human reaction, I yelled for help and the foreman came running. He took a short look at me…and a longer look at the beast. As long as I live, I’ll never forget his words that day. “What in the hay-uhl have you done, boy? You just cut off the last fifty feet of our hose.”

Hmmm. I figured out later that when the foreman couldn’t reach the top of some of the trees, he stopped spraying long enough to climb half way up the trees, and then started spraying again. By then the pressure had built up, and each time he hit the nozzle, the hose jumped. That one cost me a “ceegar” every day for the rest of the summer.

I loved working at Garlands. Lee Garland had a gift of making all us young boys feel special. We would have done anything for him. I know now that he did whatever was necessary to build us up until we were old and strong enough to make a real contribution, but at the same time, he made us feel terrific about what we were accomplishing.

When I was about fourteen, Lee told me to spend the morning loading up a wheelbarrow with heavy construction debris, taking it to the dumpster. I wasn’t very big yet and that much weight in a wheelbarrow was a struggle, but Lee said it was time I learned to step up and do a man’s work. But it is the rest of the story that serves as an example of how he helped us build up our characters and bodies. You see, Lee hired a grown man to follow me around that day. Each time the bulky load got the better of me and the wheelbarrow fell, that guy was paid to help set it back up and get it reloaded…and then he once again stepped out of the way. That wheelbarrow was my responsibility and Lee made it clear that it wasn’t going to move without my making it happen.

Lee was always looking ahead, and when I was fifteen, he decided that it was time for me to focus in on a specialty. For that whole summer, he made me the assistant to the hedge trimming crew. My main job was picking up the trimmings made by the members of the crew. There weren’t enough trimmings for the first part of the day to worry much about that job, so Lee made a big thing out of appointing me the “back of the hedge” trimmer. He would sit there for hours with me, showing me in pain-staking detail how to hold one of the handles of the clippers stationary and move only the other up and down to make a more precise edge. He explained how to use the lighter green new growth of the hedge as a guide for depth and straight line, and how to step back every several minutes for a broader perspective on how this place matched where I had trimmed earlier. He also had the other men come and check out my work on a regular basis, always bragging on what I had done well and giving suggestions about how to make my work look more professional. The next summer when I turned sixteen, Lee made me the foreman of that crew. It was only then that I realized that nobody trims the back of hedges. Lee invested an entire summer with me on the back hedge to teach me the skills I would need the next year when I took over. But I remember being so proud of getting better and better.

I have built many choirs and orchestras over the years, but all I know about recruiting I learned at Garlands. One summer the nursery was hired to plant all the grass for a luxurious new championship golf course. That’s a lot of grass. In those days, after the soil was leveled, a crew of men with hoes made precision cuts at six inch intervals, followed by another crew with grass sod. The sod, which came in six foot rolls a foot wide, had to by cut into two inch squares, dumped into wheelbarrows, and dropped individually into those cuts, a tedious and back breaking job. Another finishing crew did the actual planting, but the real problem was the sod dropping. No one wanted to bend over that much. I told Lee I had a better idea and that I would be back shortly. I walked through the ten square blocks of new developments surrounding the country club and came back with twenty kids from third through sixth grade who wanted “the adventure of a life time!” All those grown men couldn’t keep up with those kids for whom I made dropping sod into holes a game. They couldn’t wait to come back day after day, and we finished that monster job a week early.

At sixteen I was a regular foreman, but most of the men were much older, so my assistants were usually chosen with care…until Lee gave me Carlos. Maybe this was another lesson, but oh my…Carlos was a piece of work. He was twenty-nine and had just been released from the penitentiary for attempted manslaughter. He had muscles on top of muscles and a deep knife scar across his chest from a bar room brawl. I knew I couldn’t make Carlos do anything, and that’s how I became a motivator. I told him, “Carlos, I’ve got to unload this semi filled with eighty pound sacks of rock, but I don’t really care what you do. Even if you did help, I don’t think you could keep up with me.” Then without another word, I turned and went to work. Carlos’ vocabulary seemed limited to mostly four letter words, several of which he launched in my direction…as he grabbed a sack under each arm. It wasn’t long before we moved from a personal competition into pitting ourselves against the other crews. Nobody kept up with us, and nobody ever, ever made fun of our crew!

There was more to learn the next summer, and I found out the hard way how to own up for one’s mistakes. I was now also the foreman of the spray crew, and most of the work that summer involved spraying arsenic of lead on evergreens which were being decimated by bagworms. Each morning I would pour three sacks of arsenic into the 200 gallon tank and fill it with water. I followed the same procedure each day…three sacks of mix and then the water. So I was mystified when I arrived at work early one morning and Lee was waiting for me in his car. He motioned me in and we sat in silence until we entered a wealthy neighborhood that I recognized as one I had worked in recently. Sure enough, we stopped at a place I had sprayed just days before, and what I saw made me cringe. The formerly flawless twelve foot tall hedge that surrounded their entire property was wilting and yellowed. Lee asked me if I read the spray mix sacks every day. That made me nervous. It turned out that mix which had always come in two pound sacks had been changed to four pound sacks in the last shipment, and I had inadvertently doubled the mixture. Those mature hedges were irreplaceable at any price. Lee explained that he had already talked with the owner, but that I needed to learn to face problems head on. We went to the door and Lee introduced me and left it up to me to explain what had happened and apologize. But that wasn’t all. Lee brought me to that house every day for two weeks with tools, hoses, special fertilizers and soil boosters, and I cultivated, pruned, watered and babied those hedges until they came back to life. Lee didn’t have to go to that extent for that customer, but it was a lesson he wanted to teach me.

Lee was a wonderful salesman. He was an expert in his field, but he added to that expertise a captivating enthusiasm and a pervasive love of landscaping which fed the imaginations of customers. I watched time after time as customers couldn’t wait to get home and plant what Lee had just sold them. He had a way of stirring up their passion. For two weeks each summer when the garden center foreman was on vacation, he put me in charge of the shop. I learned what excited customers and how to pace the presentations. I learned how to get customers to see possibilities. Selling became more of a service of showing people how to beautify their homes. Lee would come out to the shop once a day while I was in charge and challenge me to a selling duel. I was to choose the first or the second customer that walked in the door, it didn’t matter to him, and he would take the other. When those customers left, we would compare sales slips. He always made the deal that if I ever beat him, he would give me his check for the week, and he was the owner! I was a damned good salesman, but I never beat the champion. He was masterful!

Lee not only taught me to work hard, care about detail, and sell anything, he also took the time to teach me to hunt and fish, to play tennis, and mostly to live every day to the fullest. When our family returned from living in Europe during my father’s sabbatical leave, Lee threw a party for us. I’ll never forget his words when I walked in, “there’s my Mike.” It meant so much to me that I was special to him. When my two boys, Todd and Brad, were in fifth and second grades, I flew them out with me to Henry’s Lake near Yellowstone Park to meet Lee, my boyhood mentor. During that magical week together, Lee taught my boys to fish and shoot as he had taught me at their age. On the last day, the four of us were in the middle of the huge lake in a small boat catching an incredible amount of fish. The weather was threatening, but we were pulling in so many fish that we ignored it. Finally Lee looked up and ordered us to pull our lines in fast. A menacing black wall of storm clouds was racing toward us. It was coming directly into us as we turned the boat to head home. Lee came from a long line of game wardens and outdoorsmen, and he knew what had to be done. He had me take off my jacket and put it around the boys who were between my legs in the back of the boat with him. The front of the boat came way out of the water and we moved slowly forward as the violent storm broke. I doubt that the boys and I would have survived without Lee, so I owe him for that too. All along the way, he kept us calm by explaining that the other fishermen were watching us right now through binoculars, and if they sensed we were in trouble, they would bring one of the big boats out in a flash. It took us an hour, but we made it in safely.

I never saw Lee again. A few years later, he was stricken with a virulent cancer for which there was no cure. As his last days approached, Lee went back to Henry’s Lake for a final fishing trip and died in the lake. But even death could not diminish all that Lee meant to my life. Even to this day when I need courage, strength, or resiliency, I have only to think of him. He never taught in a school, but he was the most significant teacher of my life, and how he taught is a superlative paradigm for the rest of us who dedicate our lives to being teachers. May we all make our students feel so special.